..Pooba..: P.S. I'm Divorced

Thursday, July 29, 2010

P.S. I'm Divorced

Yeah, I'm officially single and have been for over 2 months.

Apparently the court dudes don't call you or mail you a letter to let you know when your divorce is final. They just expect you to check in with them.

WTF?

31 comments:

confused homemaker said...: I'm sorry that you've had to go through all this. I hope it's getting a little better for you.

And I agree, WTF Court?! A letter seems the least that they could do.; July 29, 2010 at 7:05 AM
Dawn Parsons Smith said...: {{{Sending you loads of hugs}}}; July 29, 2010 at 7:29 AM
Nana said...: LAME!!!! I got a letter. I'll send you a letter. It will say:

Dear Pooba,
The happiest day of your life has arrived. You just lost 200? lbs. You are free as a bird. You are beautiful so, watch out for all the weird men.
Albert is a turd!!!!!!!

You are now free to go buy those shoes you want.

Love, Judge Nana; July 29, 2010 at 7:30 AM
THE Stephanie said...: Wow. I'd think they'd at least send you some legal document. Crazy!; July 29, 2010 at 7:43 AM
Julia said...: Well now you know. Laughing... Isn't that the way it is with ALL government agencies. Except for the IRS!!!!; July 29, 2010 at 7:48 AM
Unknown said...: hmmm, i would think at some point you would get a copy of the signed court documented papers...

at any rate...{hugs}; July 29, 2010 at 8:06 AM
Suzi said...: Government officials do the least amount of work possible! Hope you are doing well.; July 29, 2010 at 8:13 AM
Formerly known as Frau said...: First step towards the future you desire. ((hugs)); July 29, 2010 at 8:40 AM
Tara Bennett said...: I think Nana's letter sums it up. But that really IS lame. The court never forgets to tell me when I owe them money for all the lame tickets I get, but you legally separate from your spouse and -- nothin? Not cool.; July 29, 2010 at 8:41 AM
Sara said...: I think of you often. (((BIG HUGS))) and WTF court. I was birddogging the mail for the court paper stating I no longer had custody of my sister. Gotta follow up on those things. Courts suck. They never told me when I didn't have custody.; July 29, 2010 at 9:02 AM
Kristina P. said...: I don't know if I should say I'm sorry, or congrats, so I will say both.; July 29, 2010 at 9:32 AM
Unknown said...: I say congrats on your new single lady-ness! May you meet many many hot men and have lots of fun!; July 29, 2010 at 10:43 AM
brokenteepee said...: That is somewhat idiotic.
Look forward. You will get what you want.; July 29, 2010 at 10:47 AM
Brian Miller said...: smiles.

sorry you had to go through with this...but hope you find even greater happiness...; July 29, 2010 at 10:55 AM
Unknown said...: Now on with the fun stuff! The rest of your life. So sorry you had to go through it though. And the courts suck!; July 29, 2010 at 11:05 AM
Megan said...: That is pretty lame that they couldn't even let you know. Jeez!

I think I'll say I'm sorry (((HUGS))) and Congrats **high five** but I don't know which one is better.; July 29, 2010 at 12:55 PM
Liz Mays said...: WHAT? You've been divorced officially for 2 months???

It took mine 4.5 to get through the system. Geez!

I hope you're ok. Are you ok?; July 29, 2010 at 12:55 PM
Michelle said...: Ditto what Nana said!

She is a freakin' beast that woman is. And so are you!!!!; July 29, 2010 at 3:14 PM
Sarah said...: "Cheers" to a happy future!; July 29, 2010 at 4:48 PM
Anonymous social worker said...: Sh*t gurl. I didn't even know, but then I read your bio to find out more. I'm so sorry.
:(
But I think you did the right thing.
Wanting children is a very strong subject.

BTW: I'm single.; July 29, 2010 at 5:58 PM
Anonymous said...: to FrancoB:
Um....Pooba is a Woman=she needs a MAN!!

Good Luch Poob! You deserve all the best!!!; July 29, 2010 at 9:26 PM
AiringMyLaundry said...: What? Well that stinks.

Are you doing okay?; July 29, 2010 at 11:46 PM
scrappysue said...: there is no justice. hugs; July 30, 2010 at 4:45 AM
KK said...: I'm glad it's over, but I'm sorry too. Thinking about you.; July 30, 2010 at 2:23 PM
Closer to Lucy said...: Who am I to argue with Judge Nana? Going with what she said! Muah! It's time for a new season! Yay for you!; July 30, 2010 at 5:48 PM
Eve said...: What??? Oh my gosh... I've been out of touch with blog land for much longer than I thought.

What has happened?

Hang in there (((HUGS)))!!! It can only get better from this point on.; July 30, 2010 at 8:49 PM
Christine Macdonald said...: I applaud your bravery. Freedom is calling. xxoo; July 31, 2010 at 12:25 PM
Julie H said...: Well, I guess we can have the big party now :); August 1, 2010 at 1:52 PM
Alexis AKA MOM said...: hehe I love Nana has a fan base here :).

Love ya girlie I know it's for the best but no matter what doesn't make it easier.

BIG HUGS to my poob; August 2, 2010 at 6:21 PM
Karin Katherine said...: Well, you didn't really want a big fan fare anyway. Sorry. I'm still hoping he comes to his cotton pickin' senses.; August 3, 2010 at 7:32 PM
Queenie Jeannie said...: God way overdid it on the stoopid men. Just sayin.

You are abundantly loved and you have me as a sorta Big Sis. It will be OK; we're tough broads!; August 3, 2010 at 11:46 PM